Need a little training.. The Candy Rimmer kit comes with 3 plugs ranging from small to large. An anal training kit is the most effective way to get acquainted with anal play. Starting with the smallest size for beginners you can slowly graduate to the medium size then to the large size when you are fully comfortable. Use this kit if you and your partner want to try anal intercourse. Or just use it in addition to your regular erotic play. The ring handl is used to manipulate and retireve the Candy Rimmer and is also a safety measure to prevent overinsertion. Clean before and after each use with soap and warm water or toy cleaner.